So, a guy writes into The Times saying that he met a woman he fancies but she's a porn photographer and it's offputting. While Suzi Godson's answer is cool, I was a tad narked at Dr Thomas Stuttaford's comment If your potential partner has no unusual sexual tendencies, her natural curiosity in this field will soon evaporate

When will people realise that working in the sex industry is just like any other job? Except more fun (and generally, with less sexual harassment). Then again, my advice to the bloke who wrote in is 'if you're freaked out by the idea of her doing the job then don't inflict yourself on her. Let her date a real man instead.'